At this time of year, there is a lot of discussion of holiday "traditions." Some families do the same routines each year. However, for families that are in transition, it often becomes necessary to create new traditions. It can be difficult, for adults and children alike, to be flexible with this.
Sometimes there may be a family member who would like to try something new, and other family members resist the change. It can become a source of resentment and conflict. This is where the difference between tradition and ritual may be pertinent.
Personally, I have always explained to our girls that although what we do for an individual holiday may vary from year to year, the emphasis on being together is a constant. The focus shifts to what our family values, and allows for room to alter how those values are honored.
According to differencebetween.com:
• Tradition is a generic term that encompasses a wide variety of things and concepts that are handed down by one generation to another.
• Ritual is an act or a series of acts that are performed or observed in a society on occasions, events, festivals, and ceremonies. These rituals have a symbolic value and also have a religious basis.
• So a handshake to greet others is a ritual, while the practice to honor and respect the seniors is a tradition.
However your holiday plans play out, I hope you enjoy time with those you hold near and dear.
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